Admit it or not, hookup culture is far more common than we think. People often engage in casual hookup, but little of them know the rules. With the help of some people, we established some basic rules for tinder hookup.
This is a wonderful night and you found the person you want to take home. But where to go? Thiers or yours? DO not underestimate this question. It can completely ruin your plan in the last minute. If you want to stay at a place where you can feel safe, then suggest to go to your place before your partner suggest otherwise. However, every coin has two sides. If you are going to your place, you won’t be the one to decide whether to stay overnight. If you prefer to sleep alone, you might reconsider when you ask your bbw dating partner to leave. While if you are going back to his/her place, you can leave at any time you want.
Okay, you have decided where to go, how to get there? Who should pay for it? Such question might seem silly for some people, but actually this is a common issue appear in hookup culture. Since this is just a casual hookup, many people might not want to be involved too much especially when it comes to financial issues. If one of you is driving, that won’t be an issue, but if not, who should be paying for it? What is agreed is that it should be paid by the person whose apartment you are going to, because the other one should pay their own fee home. But if you are pretty conservative and insist that men should pay, then firmly aiming at your house to go. Then you will have no such question to worry about.
Remember one thing, voluntarily sexual activity is mutually beneficial. No one owes you anything. Therefore, do not think he owes you the fee to go home just because you give up returning to yours at the first place.
What is more, you should also prepare for some necessities, like condoms, lube, food, snacks, etc, just in case.
Sometimes one of you is going to change their mind and decide not to go further or feel like to change a place, give each other sometime to clear their mind. Go to a place to sit down so that you can both think it through. If you are the one who doesn’t want to go, you can always think up with an excuse like, you suddenly have a family to take care of, or you have a text the next morning, so you have to go home and prepare. No one can force you into it if you don’t want to. There is always a way out if you don’t want it. Just relax and go wit the flow.