Your online BBW dating profile is like a messenger to everyone. It simply describes you: what you look like, what you like to do, what you value. We've talked about headshots for boys and girls, so today we'll talk about how to send the first "I'm interested" message to anyone you meet on chubby dating apps.
Tip1: keep it short and use their names
"Hello, Sara" or "good afternoon, John" are two perfectly acceptable greetings. It's more appropriate to formally greet someone in the first email you send than to simply not say hello. Make sure you use the person's name and make absolutely sure you spell it correctly.
Tip2: find out what you have in common
Maybe you're drawn to this person's curvy dating profile because he or she seems to love the same soccer team, cooking, 19th-century French literature as you do, or "just like you!" It's important to find some common topics because you'll use that in next tip.
Tip3: limit your message to no more than 3 paragraphs
While you don't want your first message to be too long, you don't want it to be too short either. Write at least two paragraphs, but no more than three. Write: "Hello, Sara, I see you like swimming. You have a beautiful head." Honestly, John, it may not be worth answering because you didn't share anything about yourself or asked an open-ended question. Sara might think John just wants to see her in a bikini, regardless of John's main goal.
If you don't know what to include, try this:
In the first paragraph, introduce yourself and your name, age, and city of residence. You should also include your marital status (single, divorced, etc.), even if it's listed on your profile. Briefly describe something positive they wrote in their profile, whether it was a quote or a movie they liked, or a book they read and liked.
In the second paragraph, talk about what you have in common (you already know this because you followed tip # 2). Briefly state your interest in the activity or idea.
In the third paragraph, you need a call to action and your correspondent should give you a reason to reply. This can be as simple as asking him or her a question about what you have in common, asking them if they have any other hobbies not listed on their profile, or asking them another open-ended question. Open-ended questions are questions that can't be answered with a "yes" or "no," giving the person you're contacting something to say. It also shows interest in the person.
Tip4: spell check
Before you hit send, read your email carefully for spelling mistakes. It's a small thing, but good spelling makes you look smart.