Times are changing, and you're more likely to hear "we met on a curvy dating app" from a newlywed than you were a few years ago. A recent study shows that online chubby dating has become the most popular method. More and more singles are turning to BBW dating sites and curvy dating apps to find their significant other. Texting plays a key role here, and getting to know a small part of each other before you actually meet can be the key to success. Again, your first impression will be a few words and a photo of your profile.
First text
How do you use this to get the most out of it? Fortunately, there are a few caveats in the first few sentences.
Don't just say "hi." add some other language, but don't be specific. Say what you like about their profile pictures (flattery will make you popular everywhere), say what you see in their other public photos (not the ones you follow on facebook, just the ones you see on plus size dating apps), and then find something similar (casually) to mention. In short, find ways to get the other person's attention. Pay attention to the content of your first text message. That will make a big difference in whether you get a second chance to chat.
Use correct grammar and spelling - don't use abbreviations. You don't know what their background is, so your casual LOL could be their awkward "love you so much".
Don't send a short response - it shows you're not interested. But, make sure to keep it medium length, no one wants to read prose. If you're not interested enough in texting, chances are your conversation will end in real life.
Be casual and not aggressive at first! If you've been chatting for days and everything seems normal, it's time to start talking about a meeting.
Text compliments about BBW dating
We live in the 21st century, and there's no denying that we spend more time on our phones than talking to people, and texting can complement new and existing relationships.
Texting after a curvy date can reinforce that sense of connection. A simple "I had a great time" or "thank you for your flowers" will make the other person feel grateful without the awkwardness and sometimes phone calls (let's face it, we're not all extroverts - some of us need to hide behind a screen and say what we like about the person)
So texting may be the beginning of your "happily ever after," however, there are some things to avoid...